Added MLAS third party module and integrated into GeMM path #28934
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Zlib-ng is zlib replacement with optimizations for "next generation" systems. Its optimization may benifits image library decode and encode speed such as libpng. In our tests, if using zlib-ng and libpng combination on a x86_64 machine with AVX2, the time of `imdecode` amd `imencode` will drop 20% approximately. This patch enables zlib-ng's optimization if `CV_DISABLE_OPTIMIZATION` is OFF. Since Zlib-ng can dispatch intrinsics on the fly, port work is much easier.
Related discussion: https://github.com/opencv/opencv/issues/22573
2. Algorithm::load/save added (moved from StatModel)
3. copyrights updated; added copyright/licensing info for ffmpeg
4. some warnings from Xcode 6.x are fixed