optimize(dnn): parallelize Slice layer implementation (4.x) #28511
### Summary
Backport of PR #28447 to 4.x branch.
### Description
This PR optimizes the SliceLayer implementation for strided inputs (where step > 1). The original implementation used a recursive element-wise copy (getSliceRecursive) for any strided slice, which was extremely inefficient.
This PR introduces:
- **Parallelization**: Uses `cv::parallel_for_` to parallelize the outermost dimension of the slice operation.
- **Memcpy Optimization**: Automatically detects "pseudo-contiguous" blocks in strided slices (e.g., slicing an outer dimension but keeping inner dimensions intact) and uses `std::memcpy` instead of scalar loops.
- **Refactoring**: Replaces the recursive function with a dedicated `ParallelSlice` loop body.
### Impact
Significant performance improvement for strided slice operations (common in detection heads, strided sampling, etc.).
### Benchmark Results
Tested on CPU with 20 threads.
| Test Case | Baseline (ms) | Optimized (ms) | Speedup |
| :--- | :--- | :--- | :--- |
| Strided Axis 0 [::2, ...] | 1.10 | 0.02 | **~55x** |
| Strided Axis 2 [..., ::2] | 1.15 | 0.11 | **~10.5x** |
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- [x] The PR is proposed to the proper branch
- [x] There is a reference to the original bug report and related work
- [ ] There is accuracy test, performance test and test data in opencv_extra repository, if applicable
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Hanbin Bae