Open camera device by index through FFmpeg #27841
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resolves https://github.com/opencv/opencv/issues/26812
Example of explicit backend option (similar to `-f v4l2` from command line)
```
export OPENCV_FFMPEG_CAPTURE_OPTIONS="f;v4l2"
```
see https://trac.ffmpeg.org/wiki/Capture/Webcam for available options
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Patch to opencv_extra has the same branch name.
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Add V4L2_PIX_FMT_Y16_BE pixel format #18498
Address #18495
relates to #23944
### Pull Request Readiness Checklist
See details at https://github.com/opencv/opencv/wiki/How_to_contribute#making-a-good-pull-request
- [x] I agree to contribute to the project under Apache 2 License.
- [x] To the best of my knowledge, the proposed patch is not based on a code under GPL or other license that is incompatible with OpenCV
- [ ] The PR is proposed to proper branch
- [x] There is reference to original bug report and related work
- [ ] There is accuracy test, performance test and test data in opencv_extra repository, if applicable
Patch to opencv_extra has the same branch name.
- [ ] The feature is well documented and sample code can be built with the project CMake
- [ ] Test using Melexis MLX90640
Dmitry Kurtaev
Maksim Shabunin
Alexander Smorkalov
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