Merge pull request #27581 from dkurt:d.kuryaev/dlpack

### Pull Request Readiness Checklist

resolves #16295

```
docker run --gpus 0 -v ~/opencv:/opencv -v ~/opencv_contrib:/opencv_contrib -it nvidia/cuda:12.8.1-cudnn-devel-ubuntu22.04
apt-get update && apt-get install -y cmake python3-dev python3-pip python3-venv &&
python3 -m venv .venv &&
source .venv/bin/activate &&
pip install -U pip &&
pip install -U numpy &&
pip install torch --index-url https://download.pytorch.org/whl/cu128 &&
cmake \
    -DWITH_OPENCL=OFF \
    -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE=Release \
    -DBUILD_DOCS=OFF \
    -DWITH_CUDA=ON \
    -DOPENCV_DNN_CUDA=ON \
    -DOPENCV_EXTRA_MODULES_PATH=/opencv_contrib/modules \
    -DBUILD_LIST=ts,cudev,python3 \
    -S /opencv -B /opencv_build &&
cmake --build /opencv_build -j16
export PYTHONPATH=/opencv_build/lib/python3/:$PYTHONPATH
```

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- [x] I agree to contribute to the project under Apache 2 License.
- [x] To the best of my knowledge, the proposed patch is not based on a code under GPL or another license that is incompatible with OpenCV
- [x] The PR is proposed to the proper branch
- [x] There is a reference to the original bug report and related work
- [x] There is accuracy test, performance test and test data in opencv_extra repository, if applicable
      Patch to opencv_extra has the same branch name.
- [x] The feature is well documented and sample code can be built with the project CMake

cmake/OpenCVDetectDLPack.cmake

@@ -0,0 +1,5 @@
+find_package(dlpack QUIET)
+if (NOT dlpack_FOUND)
+    ocv_include_directories("${OpenCV_SOURCE_DIR}/3rdparty/dlpack/include")
+    ocv_install_3rdparty_licenses(dlpack "${OpenCV_SOURCE_DIR}/3rdparty/dlpack/LICENSE")
+endif()