Merge pull request #24577 from dkurt:dnn_graph_match_stack

Fix graph fusion with commutative ops #24577

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resolves https://github.com/opencv/opencv/issues/24568

**Merge with extra**: https://github.com/opencv/opencv_extra/pull/1125

TODO:
- [x]  replace recursive function to sequential

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- [x] There is a reference to the original bug report and related work
- [x] There is accuracy test, performance test and test data in opencv_extra repository, if applicable
      Patch to opencv_extra has the same branch name.
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modules/dnn/test/test_graph_simplifier.cpp

@@ -35,6 +35,7 @@ class Test_Graph_Simplifier : public ::testing::Test {
 
 TEST_F(Test_Graph_Simplifier, GeluSubGraph) {
     test("gelu", "Gelu");
+    test("bias_gelu", std::vector<std::string>{"Gelu", "NaryEltwise"});
 }
 
 TEST_F(Test_Graph_Simplifier, GeluApproximationSubGraph) {